October 13, 2024
1st-3rd Grade
4th-5th Grade
Story Focus: In week 2, we head to Proverbs 12:18, where Solomon spoke about the power of words. He said, “The words of thoughtless people cut like swords. But the tongue of wise people brings healing.” Thoughtless, mean, and hurtful words can cause harm like a sword! But on the flip side, when we ask God for wisdom and speak intentionally with kindness, love, and care, the words we say can bring healing.
Bottom Line: Think before you speak. “Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me.” Ever heard or said that phrase growing up? The thing is, words DO hurt. When we aren’t careful and when we lose control, we have the potential to do damage to others and ourselves that may be harder to overcome later. However, when we take the time to sort through our thoughts before we say them, we can build better and stronger relationships in the future. Relationships matter to God, so they should matter to us as well.
Key Question: How can your words change things? Have you ever said something mean to someone and didn’t mean it, but it was too late to take back the words you said? Maybe it took a while to rebuild that trust, or maybe you lost the relationship. Our words have the power to cause pain or bring healing. Because our words hold that much power, the way we use them can make all the difference. We hope this question helps preteens to remember to think before they speak.
Memory Verse: “God's power has given us everything we need to lead a godly life.” 2 Peter 1:3A, NIrV
Self-Control: Choosing to do what's best even when you don't want to.